Archive for January, 2011

Leadership is a Skill


Everyone has leadership potential. opportunities for a leadership occur every day. The better prepared we are to meet leadership challenges, the more readily we develop skills in building our relationships with other people. Leaders who build, create, and encourage their colleagues have long-term success and are remembered long into the future.

How do leaders get to be leaders? A great many authors and speakers have tried to answer this question. There are several books, studies,and research reports to the subject, as well as editorials, articles and speeches. All of them have differences and similarities in their answers. Many have attempted to supply a magic formula as an answer to the question of leadership. To date, none of the formulas given is complete, none of them meets all conditions, and none of them has succeeded in doing what they all have aimed to do. Many of these attempted responses argued that certain personal characteristics give rise to leadership, such as: moral beliefs, spirituality, strong character and winning personality.

A typical young leader, studies show, is a person that exceeds the other members of his group in sociability, initiative, persistence, knowledge of how to get things done, self-confidence, alertness to and insight into situations, cooperation, popularity, adaptability,and verbal capacity. The secret of success of young leaders today is the combination of their leadership and verbal skills. Quantity/quality of speech must be accompanied by a degree of leadership potential as well.

A leader gives hope, faith, inspiration and the power of enthusiasm. He is a man of character, a builder pf men, dependable, creative, loyal and honest.

Take Charge of Your Thoughts


The mind is so powerful that it can make or unmake you. How you deal with circumstances that happen in your life speaks of your thinking patterns.

Consider a single thought as having the power to attract other forms of energy outside your body. Having a positive thought of “I can” attracts possibilities and opportunities in the cast electromagnetic field field of the great universe. Bearing the positive thoughts everywhere you go opens the door to a positively charged entity.

Truly, the mind flows the law of attraction which states, “Like begets like.”

It pays to have an inventory of the significant events in your life and how your thought pattern has influenced them.

The mind is like a room. The atmosphere you create in the room depends upon the quality and the quantity of the things that you put into your room. There is the curtain with a pastel color that creates a peaceful and copy ambiance. The you have the shelf of books and a host of equipment for personal recreation and inspiration. Now, consider a dead rat whose decomposing body got stuck in one of your closets for a week. Do you imagine ow that stench can bring about a chain of unhealthy effects? What about the other people who drop in your own room.

Any negative thought is like that dead rat. It contaminates the air necessary for free and healthy breathing. It also blocks energy necessary for creativity and movements. take it out of your room lest you suffer the consequences. Your room may have been equipped with things that make you feel good, but if you don’t take out things that can dampen its healthy space sooner or later.

There is a God!


While reading a book at home, I was also able to listen to radio and touched by Father Gerry Orbos, the speaker, in his discourse. In his talk, he is telling a story of his friend, who was also a priest from Canada, during the time he is on his friend’s house.

When he was there, he said that he feels very good and so welcome on his friend’s house also, he was able to read few sentences stickered on the face of his friend’s refrigerator saying, “To all visitors! There are only two rules in this house: No. 1, There is A God and No. 2, you are not him!”, and that’s it!

Those sentences were simply written but really true. So stop playing God, stop controlling people and stop hurting them. Let it play. The problem is most of us keep on rewinding what had happened, reminiscing it and even forwarding what may happen in the future, that is why it is not playing. Just play it and be thankful and feel blessed that you are alive and you have a life to live. Do not worry, there is a God.

Do not be a God for others, it is okay to sympathize others but do not go to the point that you control their lives. They have their own lives to live as what you have had. God has many plans for every one of us distinctly and differently. You may show your love to other people buy letting them to do whatever they want, to empower their selves and to make them realize in their own, on how to develop communication to our God. Remember this, we are living in this world for three reasons: to love someone, to be love by someone and to live our lives in conformity to the rules of our God.

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